It has been over 2 years since my last post. It is something I think about often and miss doing. I don't keep a journal or a scrapbook so this blog has been my way of documenting our lives. I hope someday my kids will enjoy reading about all of our families adventures. So here I am getting back to my blog and hopefully I can commit to this being a regular occurrence. I do intend on updating the missing 2 years on the blog with a series of posts of our comings and goings but I felt this post was most important and needed to be documented before my memory starts to go!
Its no secret that I've often dreamed of moving out of California. Its not that I wanted to move away from friends or family but I've lived there my whole life (with the exception of college) and I longed for some adventure and to explore somewhere new. The steep home prices, astronomical taxes, and ridiculous state of our government also made it appealing to leave. Chris and I bought our condo in 2004 during the housing boom and we thought it would be a perfect starter home for us. And it was, we have loved living there but after 4 kids and 10 years we were itching to move into a bigger home. Problem was, our home has been upside down for many years and even though we are finally at the tipping point we still couldn't bear to sell it and break even just to buy a bigger home with a huge price tag. So we endured our crowded time in that little condo. Whenever a new position at Chris' work would open up we'd talk about the possibility of moving and even had considered moving to places like Arizona, Texas and even Chicago at one point. None of the jobs seemed to work out or weren't the right fit so we just kept on praying that God would lead us in the direction he wanted and if it was to stay in California so be it.
In December of 2014 Chris briefly mentioned to me that there was an opportunity to take a new position in Boise, Idaho that he had some people talking to him about. Not exactly the place I had in mind but I toyed around with the idea and started looking at homes online and reading up the area. It wasn't until January that he became more serious about the position and it became more real. I started to get excited thinking I could get a big house with a small price tag. Chris had an interview, and we tried to not get too invested until we knew. (But as usual I had already spent countless hours reading online) Chris called me on his way home from the interview. He had good news and bad news. The good news was the interview went GREAT! The bad news was that they really liked him better for a position in Seattle, Washington! Seattle? My first response was shock, "What? I don't want to move to Seattle! It rains all the time and its too expensive, the people are cold and liberal there. My kids will grow up wearing goth and listing to grunge music" (This was literally my response) Then I started looking online at zillow as we were talking and the home prices didn't seem much better than California. I was sad and bummed. I didn't want to move my whole family only to be in the same situation we were before. Chris calmed me down and told me to pray about it. Over the next few days we started getting used to the idea and thinking more positive. After all, my wonderful Sister in law, Amanda, is from Seattle, and I would love for my kids to grow up to be like her. Maybe Seattle isn't as bad as I thought it would be. We started to tell our families and friends and the idea started to grow on me. Seattle really was a cool city and very beautiful. Maybe we would even get visitors because it is such a fun place to visit. My brother Chris (who is married to Amanda) told me about some areas that he thought might be a good fit for us price wise and location wise and after looking online I was pleasantly surprised that the homes weren't as expensive as I thought and the schools in this particular area were really good. The homes were not as big and cheap as Boise but after crunching some numbers we figured out that it might just work.
Everything was a whirlwind from that point. This occurred at the very end of January. We told our kids first and they were actually thrilled. We wanted to make sure that they would be okay with moving and to our surprise there was not one hesitation. We had to figure out what to do with our Condo, should we try to sell it and maybe break even or should we rent it. Regardless we had a lot of odds and ends to do to get it ready. Chris was set to start work on March 9 and he would be living up in Seattle, flying home on the weekends until the kids and I could get up there and we could settle in a house. We toyed around with the idea of staying in California til June and then moving up but we knew it would be so hard to be apart and I wanted to give our kids a chance to meet some friends before Summer. Two weeks later on February 18, Chris and I flew up to Washington to look at homes. We had found a Real Estate agent through a Dave Ramsey referral but we were kind of miffed because at the last minute he told us he would be busy so he passed us on to another agent in another office. She was nice but not who I would've picked if I'd interviewed her. She lined up some places to show us but we knew for sure we wanted to be in Maple Valley. We liked the sense of community there and the schools were excellent. That first afternoon we flew in we drove out to Maple Valley from the airport. My first impressions were, Wow, this is so far off of the freeway. I can't see anything but trees. I feel like I'm out in the country. This little lake is gorgeous. Look at this cute library. This is so different that what we are used to. Am I sure this is the right thing for our family? We drove by some of the homes I had found on Zillow and I started getting excited to go looking the next day with our agent. On our way back to the hotel we got an email from her telling me that the two houses we looked at already excepted offers or were not on the market anymore. I was so frustrated and sad. I felt like this was it... if we didn't find a home this trip I didn't know what we would do. There just wasn't another opportunity to come up here to look at houses. The market was pretty hot and if a house came on the market I wouldn't be able to fly up and look at it in time. If we didn't find a home this trip, Chris would probably be picking out our home while working up there and that made me nervous. The next day we got up early, went running and then met our agent in front of the first house. We liked the house but hated the way the yard was situated. It just didn't feel like home to us and it needed a little bit of cosmetic work. We also felt that the seller was asking too much. She showed us two more homes but they weren't good fits either and one wasn't in Maple Valley, which is where we knew we wanted to be. After looking at homes we were so fortunate to get lined up with my best friend Carrie's cousin in law who just so happens to live in Maple Valley! Sweet Debi Reeves emailed me that morning and said, "There are 3 things I am an expert on... my husband, my kids and Maple Valley, Washington" We were thrilled. After our drive around the night before we felt a little uneasy and scared. It would be nice to talk to someone who could tell us what this city had to offer and about the church here as well. Debi met us while we were having lunch and we spent the next several hours talking and even went over to her house! She was so sweet and got us so excited about living here. Only problem was we needed to find a house and our agent had informed us that there was just nothing left on the market in Maple Valley that had the right number of bedrooms and an office for us. (Chris was going to be working from home so we needed an office and Maddie was ready for her own room) Our agent left us that day saying she'd do her best and call all the expired listings in the area to see if one wasn't coming back on the market. We didn't have much hope she'd find anything though.
Those first 2 days were so uneasy and scary. We said a lot of prayers and I felt like we were literally walking by faith every step of the way. We had a wonderful visit with Debi and she even had us go look at a home which was going on the market soon of one of her ward members but the timing wasn't right since they wanted to move in June and we needed to move in April. We were considering the option if there was nothing else that came up. That night as we were heading to dinner we got a call from our agent. She had spent hours on the phone calling listings that had previously expired. She got a call back from an agent who said we could come look at a home that was not on the market and had fallen out of escrow last September. She wasn't going to put it back on the market but said she would let us come see it and we could make an offer. The agent didn't go into much detail but told us she had a good feeling about it. We didn't get too excited at first because the price was at the very top of our budget. We also found another home that had just come on the market to look at that same day. Things were looking up and we even had a back up plan if neither of these worked out.
We drove up in front of the home our agent had found and I thought the neighborhood looked adorable. It was a newer home on a well manicured street and even had a window box out front. It was actually in the same area as Debi lived and a few streets over from the house she had us look at the day before. I walked in and my first instinct was this house is way too nice, we can't afford it and its much nicer than I would expect. I'll just look around for fun and a girl can dream right? It wasn't until I noticed Chris' demeanor, that I realized we might actually be able to get this house. He started asking questions and it appeared he might actually be interested. The home had everything we could want and more. The kitchen was huge and it had a built in double fridge. The family room was enormous and would be perfect for entertaining. As we walked upstairs and saw how much room it had we imagined how happy our family would be there. It even had a large bonus room which was literally a bonus! I turned to him and said, "Could we really do this? Isn't it too much for us to spend?" He made that face that let me know what he was thinking. He was thinking this could be the house... We went outside and we both got excited thinking this might be the one. We took pictures with our phones and told the agent we still wanted to look at the other house but left the house absolutely beaming.
We looked at another home which was really nice as well but less square footage and the same amount of money. We both felt good about the first house and told our agent we'd meet her at her office to make an offer in a few hours. Our heads were spinning so we drove to the local Fred Meyer sat down on some couches for sale and talked. It was a no brainer, we both knew this house was a dream. After looking at the numbers we realized that we could make it work. We put in an offer that night which was Friday and the very next day our agent called us in the morning to tell us we got the house! We literally jumped up and down on the hotel bed we were so excited. We immediately called the kids who were with my parents back home to tell them the good news. They were over the moon and couldn't wait to see it. After all the excitement settled we had a day and a half left of our trip so we decided to explore Seattle! It was a beautiful Sunny day in February (which I've learned is pretty rare) and we did the underground tour (what were we thinking? It was interesting however) We also visited Pikes Market and had a nice dinner that night.
That next day we went to our new ward and met so many nice people. We found out that we had an adorable family from our ward living on our very street with 4 kids as well. It felt like all the talks we heard were speaking straight to us. We both knew that the Lord had guided us to this spot to this place in this very home and we didn't know why but we felt the hand of the Lord every step of the way. It was an amazing feeling and we knew it was right.
After church we visited my cousin Parker and his wife Stella who live about 40 minutes from Maple Valley. They took us out on their lake and it was beautiful. It made it that much sweeter to know that even though we'd be moving away from family we had some family here too!
Once we got home that evening it was a race til the end of March. I had a month and a half to get our condo ready to rent, packing up all of our clutter in our closets, toys, books and anything I could do to make the house look bigger. We had to fix things, paint most of the baseboards and cupboards and make it sparkle. The hard part was that Chris was gone most of the time, working in Seattle. By the time we actually were packed up and the condo was empty I was completely exhausted.
We looked back at our little house, our little 1200 sq foot condo that we raised our kids in and I actually felt sad and empty. I knew that there would be more exciting times ahead but it was hard to leave the past behind us. We said our goodbyes to our neighbors and friends and many tears were shed but we looked forward and ahead toward a new horizon up north.
I snapped a picture of this rainbow as we were heading up north. It was a symbol to me of beautiful things to come, a message from God that we were on the right path.